Then Isaac called Jacob and blessed him and directed him, “You must not take a wife from the Canaanite women. Arise, go to Paddan-aram to the house of Bethuel your mother’s father, and take as your wife from there one of the daughters of Laban your mother’s brother. God Almighty bless you and make you fruitful and multiply you, that you may become a company of peoples. (Genesis 28:1-3)
Isaac’s Warning. Isaac instructed Jacob not to take a wife from the Canaanites but to go to Haran and take a wife from one of the daughters of Laban, his uncle. He then blessed Jacob.
Overhearing Isaac’s instructions to Jacob, Esau, having already married Hittite women against his parents will, attempted to curry favor with his parents, married a daughter of Ismael. By this he married into a family that God rejected.
Who you associate with influences your decisions, attitudes, and behavior.
Jacob’s Dream. In his dream, Jacob saw a ladder reaching to from earth to heaven with angels ascending and descending and the Lord above it. The Lord identified himself as his God and invited Jacob to have a personal relationship with him. The Lord then established a covenant with Jacob as he had done with Abraham and Isaac.
Jacob’s Response. Jacob acknowledged that he had met the Lord but promised to make the Lord his God if the Lord carried out his promise of blessing and protection over his travels. Note, unlike his father and grandfather, he did not set an altar to mark the place. Why did Jacob hesitate to accept the Lord as his God? Why did he put a condition on it? Was it because, being a deceiver, he questioned if God was deceiving him? Would the Lord do what he promised?
Are you fully committed to the Lord, or are you waiting for him to act?
Jacob’s Tithe. “If God will be with me . . . And of all that you give me I will give a full tenth to you” (v20-22). Jacob promised to give the Lord a tenth of everything he received if the Lord carried out his promise. This is the first mention of a tithe that would later be commanded in Leviticus 27:30.
Is the tithe the first item on your budget?
“Even for a dyed-in-the-wool, double-barreled con artist like Jacob there are a few things in this world you can't get but can only be given, and one of these things is love in general, and another is the love of God in particular.” Frederick Buechner