So the man became exceedingly prosperous, and had large flocks and female and male servants and camels and donkeys. (Genesis 30:43)
Jacob’s Sons: From the previous chapter, we know that to gain Jacob’s love, Leah bore him four sons (Reuben, Simeon, Levi, and Judah).
Rachel, however, was baren and blamed Jacob. In turn, Jacob blamed God.
Rachel directed Jacob to produce children through her servant Bilhah. Bilhah gave birth to two sons whom Rachel named (Dan and Naphtali). (Ancient non-Biblical writing on marriage indicates that children born to a surrogate were included as a part of the family.)
Leah became baren and gave Jacob her servant, Zilpah who bore two sons whom Leah named (Gad and Asher). The Leah conceived and bore two more sons (Issachar and Zebulun).
At this point, it appears that the sisters were competing, and Leah bore two more sons (Ruben and Simeon). Then Rachel conceived and bore a son and named him Joseph. Genesis 35:16-20 reveals that Rachel bore a second son, Benjamin.
Both Rachel and Leah give God the credit for having sons. However, there is no reference to Jacob praying for his wives to bear children as did Isaac did for Rebekah.
Do we let jealousy drive our behavior?
Deception: Jacob then asked Laban for permission to return to Canaan with his wives, children, and flocks. Because Jacob has made Laban a wealthy man he asked Jacob what wages he wanted for continuing to work for him. Jacob responded by asking for the easily identifiable sheep in the Laban’s flock (spotted, stripped, black). Laban then separated the identifiable sheep and gave them to his sons. Jacob then by careful breeding, produced a frock of spotted, stripped, and black sheep from the strongest sheep in Laban’s flock. And Jacob became very wealthy. If anything, Jacob was a patient man.
Patience is the ability to suffer a long time under the mistreatment of others without growing resentful or bitter. Jerry Bridges