They saw him from afar, and before he came near to them they conspired against him to kill him. (Genesis 37:18).
Jacob’s Love of Joseph: The narrative moves from Esau to Jacob and his sons in Canaan. Jacob loved Joseph, his second youngest son, and treated him like the oldest. He made Joseph a robe of many colors, thereby setting him apart from his brothers. Again, favoritism rears its ugly head. Do you show favoritism in your family, your relationships?
Joseph’s Dreams: Joseph further alienates his brothers by revealing his dreams which imply his superiority over them. In the Old Testament, dreams were seen as divine revelations. As a result, the brothers developed deep hatred and jealousy. Do you antagonize others?
The Plot to Kill Joseph: In search of better pasture, the brothers moved their flocks north from Hebron to Shechem and then Dothan. Jacob sent Joseph to determine how his brothers were doing. His brothers saw Joseph approaching and plotted to kill him and cover it up. Reuben intervened and encouraged the brothers to throw him in a pit so later he could be returned to his father. Reuben’s actions imply an attempt to gain Jacobs favor as first born. How do you react when someone plots against you?
Joseph Sold: The brothers, absent Reuben and encouraged by Judah, took Joseph’s robe, and sold him for 20 pieces of silver to passing Ishmaelite traders who were enroute to Egypt. The narrative later identifies the traders as Midianites (verses 28 and 36). When Reuben discovered what his brothers had done, he mourned either for the loss of his brother (or perhaps the missed opportunity to gain favor with his father). For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice (James 3:16).
Deception: The brothers then killed a goat and spread its blood on Joseph’s robe and brought it to Jacob telling him that Joseph had been killed by a wild animal. Jacob went into a deep grief over the loss of his favorite son as evidenced by his claiming that his grief would follow him after death.
Favoritism led to envy, jealousy, deception, and grief. Here, all parties failed to control their behavior. Do you allow the Spirit to control your actions? If not, what are the possible consequences of your actions?
Potiphar: The traders sold Joseph to Potiphar, the captain of Pharaoh’s guard.
The cure for the sin of envy and jealousy is to find our contentment in God. - Jerry Bridges