Sarah lived 127 years; these were the years of the life of Sarah. And Sarah died at Kiriath-arba (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan, and Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. And Abraham rose up from before his dead and said to the Hittites, “I am a sojourner and foreigner among you; give me property among you for a burying place, that I may bury my dead out of my sight” (Genesis 23:1-4).
Our eternal dwelling. When Sarah died, Abraham mourned and wept. Then he rose or stood up and went to find a place to bury her. Because he did not own land, he went to the Hittites (NKJV and KJV translates them as the sons of Heth), identifies himself as a sojourner or nomad (v4), and asks for property. The writer of Hebrews (11:9-10) reports that he did not have property because he was “looking forward to the city that has foundations, whose designer and builder is God” (11:10).
Do we long for the day when will dwell in the house not made with hands?
Out of Sight. The text twice quotes Abraham as saying, “bury my dead out of sight” (v4 and 7) referring to Sarah and his descendants. By “out of sight” he may have meant that he wanted to remember her alive.
Imposing Presence. Therefore, Abraham asked the people of Hebron for property. In responding to Abraham’s request, the Hittites called him a “prince of God” (v6). Abraham was recognized throughout the region: he and 318 of his men rescued Lot (chapter 14); Abimelech secured a treaty with him (21:22); and here the Hittites offered him the “the choicest of our tombs.” Both Abimelech and the Hittites knew about his relationship with the Lord (20:7, 21:22).
How are we seen by those around us? Do they recognize us by our relationship with the Lord?
Transaction. The Hittites as a whole and Ephron, the owner of the proposed property, offered to give Abraham “the choicest of our tombs” (v6). However, Abraham insisted on paying for the land and the cave. Ephron and the Hittites agreed and Abraham paid for the property in the presence of the men (witnesses) at the gate of Hebron.
The property was transferred to Abraham and the land and the cave in Machpelah belonged to his family forever. The cave became the burial place for Sarah, Abraham, Isaac, Rebekah, Jacob, and Leah.
But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ (Philippians 3:20)